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A Letter to My Younger Self: A Rewind and Repost
I wrote this 3 and 1/2 years ago. It is now more true than it has ever been in my life so I wanted to repost it today. May we all walk in...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Dec 10, 20245 min read
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Overcoming Cycles Co-dependency Part 3: Control
It’s pouring the rain outside. The day could not have provided a better demonstration of the illusion of control. I can’t control the...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Nov 3, 20245 min read
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Overcoming Cycles Co-dependency Part 2: Avoidance
Avoidance. I wish I could tell you I had used avoidance to work good in my life but I'd be lying if I did. I defined avoidance in my...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Oct 14, 20245 min read
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Overcoming Cycles of Co-dependency Part 1: Compliance
Compliance – it's a complicated word for me. The emotional, mental, and even physical compliance have taken their toll on my body and my...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Sep 23, 20245 min read
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Overcoming Cycles of Co-Dependency: An Introduction
Hello everyone! This may sound very strange, but I am excited to take you through this new blog series! I recently admitted to myself...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Aug 26, 20247 min read
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What's in a Name Part 3: My “City” Called “Unlovable”
I do not own the rights to this photo. Hello everyone! The last blog in this series is very personal to me. It's been a long journey to...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Aug 15, 20237 min read
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What's in a Name Part 2: The "Cities" in our Heads
Hello everyone and welcome to Part 2! You are probably looking at this title and thinking to yourself, “What is she talking about? What...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Aug 7, 20235 min read
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What's in a Name Part 1: An Introduction (And Upcoming Book News)
I don't own the rights to this photo. Hello everyone! This will be my third blog series this year! I will also be adding some materials...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Jul 31, 20233 min read
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The Things I've Wanted to Say to the Church (But Didn't Think I Could) Part 3: Love and Respect
**I do not own the rights to this photo. Hello everyone! As promised, my final blog in this series! I will be posting them all together...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Jul 22, 20235 min read
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The Things I've Wanted to Say to the Church (But Didn't Think I Could) Part 2: Racism in the Church
Hello everyone! I suspect I will pen more upsetting and unsettling things today, and that is okay. The patient (the Church) requires the...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Jul 3, 20234 min read
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The Things I Want to Say to the Church (But Didn't Think I Could) Part 1: The Lie of Regret
Hello everyone! I'm starting a new blog series. The problem with this series is it may not leave you with warm fuzzies. Then again, warm...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Jun 19, 20236 min read
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Lion and Lioness, God's Design: Part 3
I do not own the rights to this photo. The Role of Feminism and Why the Church Must Make Amends Hello everyone! Today's Part 3 will...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
May 6, 20237 min read
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Lion and Lioness, God's Design: Part 2
Jesus' Design for Gender Reconciliation and Relationships in the Church and Beyond: “Biblical Roles” vs. God's True Design I do not own...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Feb 21, 20235 min read
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Lion and Lioness, God's Design: Part 1
I do not own the rights to this photo. Lion and Lioness: Jesus' Design for Gender Reconciliation and Relationships in the Church and...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Jan 9, 20236 min read
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Lion and Lioness, God's Design: An Introduction
I do not own the rights to this photo. Hello everyone! I am so excited about this upcoming blog series! This theme has been on my heart a...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Nov 1, 20223 min read
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The Abortion Debate Part 2: What Now Church?
Hello everyone! I have been mulling over this writing since yesterday. You may recall I wrote about the abortion debate before...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Jun 29, 20227 min read
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The Abortion Debate Part 1: Is it About Love and Protection, or Control? Where is Our Compassion?
I do not own the rights to this photo. Hello all! I had no intention of writing this blog. However, I think given the urgency in our...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
May 25, 20229 min read
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Changing the Church’s Narrative Part 5: Racism
Hello everyone! I cannot believe we are at the end of March 2022! Spring and Easter are coming in many ways for this nation! Today, I...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Mar 29, 20226 min read
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Changing the Church's Narrative Part 4: Women in Leadership
Hello everyone! I can't believe the middle of March is almost upon us! Spring is coming! This is the first real spring I have been...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Mar 14, 20225 min read
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Changing the Church's Narrative Part 3: Love and Unrepentant People
Hello everyone! Valentine's Day, the holiday of love, is almost upon us in 2022! With that in mind, and with the continued sex and abuse...
Elizabeth R Billingsley
Feb 7, 20226 min read
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